I think my best friend might be gay. He's been dropping what I think are possible hints. Is it rude to ask him? Or should I just wait and see if he comes out to me?
i don’t think it would be rude to ask. but know that even if he is he may not tell you because he isn’t ready :) just make sure he knows that if he is, you are there for him and you love him and care for him as a friend no matter what! sometimes a little reassurance that, no matter what, he’s important is all he might need :) i know i told countless people that i wasn’t when they asked me cause i just wasn’t ready to tell them yet, but eventually i came around and here we are today!
does your family know your gay? how did they take the news? how did you tell them? i need help coming out.
No, my family does not know I’m gay. correction: I haven’t told my family I’m gay. but i think they know. or at least my sister does for sure. To be honest I am scared to tell them. As I am sure a lot of gay people are. I don’t know, it’s complicated. But my advice would be to tell close friends first and let it grow from there. Your friends are going to be an AMAZING support group.
I remember the two times that I told the greatest majority of people… once was over twitter. lol. i decided that it was time for my friends to know so i just started tweeting things like: omg. this guy is hot. or just little things that made it really obvious. the second time was when i was watching new moon with friends and Taylor Lautner took his shirt off. i was like “DAMN. he is FINE” lol. and i just got more and more comfortable being myself with them.
after that i started acting like myself. the real me i had been hiding when i was trying to be like everyone else. (lame right? i like being different :) ) people eventually just started picking it up. and now…it’s just kinda like…a known fact that i’m gay. although there are some people who still think i am straight only because i haven’t told them and they don’t like to assume. but yeah…
i hope this helped you with a method for coming out. just make sure it isn’t something you do alone. you need a support group like friends to help you.
if you need anything else, please ask me :) and if you feel comfortable there is no need to be anonymous :) me and my wonderful followers (some of which are the friends i talked about) would be glad to help you. don’t worry about it. it can happen slowly. not everyone has to know at once :)
(this was kinda rambling…so i hope you actually got something from this :P)
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